When you’re locked up in long term chastity (more than approximately 21 days) draining the prostate and the seminal vesicles with a prostate milking is a required procedure. An alternative might be a ruined orgasm, but properly ruining a man’s orgasm is extremely difficult and not as efficient as a milking. To me at least, even a successful ruined orgasm, makes me a bit less submissive and takes away some of the constant horniness that is necessary for a chastity lifestyle. A prostate milking does not. After a milking I’m just as submissive and horny as before but my ability to achieve a HFO (hands free orgasm) and the “pressure” is removed.
I guess no man is alike but for me it is necessary to receive/perform a milking every 21-28 days. If I go much longer than 21 days I have no problem achieving a HFO just by tensing and flexing my abdominal and buttocks muscles. This is something both my wife and I want to avoid at all cost.
I’ll post a video showing a hands free orgasm in chastity a bit later.
I often have to milk myself in front of my wife. This is both because a milking is somewhat time consuming and a task my wife finds a bit tedious, but also because my wife knows that the humiliation of the act (when done naked on the floor in front of her) fuels my submissiveness.